It took me 17 years before I could have Remi, and 17 years wasn’t just infertility, it was nine losses. It was four IVF treatments.
– Tope Fajingbesi
Watch Tope and Remi’s NICU Story
Tope Fajingbesi knew heartache. She’d endured four IVF treatments and nine miscarriages over the course of 17 years before she became pregnant with her daughter, Remi. But when Remi arrived early—at just 25 weeks and weighing less than two pounds—Tope experienced a new uncertainty. For a mother who had already known so much loss, every moment with Remi was precious.
Over nine weeks, every milestone sparked new hope. At Holy Cross Health, a dedicated neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) team provided more than specialized medical care that Remi needed to grow stronger. Tope found a team that embraced her like family, offered comfort through uncertainty and celebrated every small victory along the way.
I saw family in these nurses. They made a difficult situation easy.
– Tope Fajingbesi
We’d all become a nice little family together.
Remi was this feisty, incredible baby who was super tiny but was making so much progress ... We would help [Tope] to hold, we would help her bond, and we would be there for all of her care.
– Ellen, NICU nurse
The relationship we made with Tope really brought the trust to life. All of us really felt bonded and trusted each other.
– Charlie, NICU nurse
Today, Tope’s days are filled with laughter, adventure, and the joy of watching Remi grow. Their story is more than a journey to motherhood. It is a testament to resilience, the power of compassionate care and the extraordinary difference a dedicated team can make.
